Why not “not all men”?
On the discomfort of men when talking about violence against women
6 min readAug 1, 2021
In March of this year, I published an article titled Why the Stats Aren’t Helping, about the problematic statistics and language surrounding them in the famous “1 in 3 women” UN statistic that is always trotted out whenever the abuse, rape or murder of a woman or girl makes international news: