Well, you're right: patriarchy does not benefit you. It's not designed to. The majority of men are as much a victim of it as everyone else--thank you for recognizing that. It's rare to find men who do!

Regarding the rest of your points, though: it's not a competition. The percentage of men as victims of violence are not the subject of this article at all. The point of this article is to examine why women are targeted for violence--it says it in the headline.